Why is it so hard to do? Over the years, we don`t pay attention to how we express ourselves and have our personal automatic answers. These are unusual, and it is for this reason that expressions in our words, emotions, sounds and attitudes are not our conscientious choices. Do not worry. these mental habits do not have the power to stop the obligation to accept the four agreements if they are not allowed. Also remember that, because you have already unconsciously put habits in your head, it is first very difficult to respect modern agreements. As for intransition, this word certainly has the connotation of perfectionism, and if we take it that way, we would indeed go crazy. (Besides, the impeccability and other agreements you make with yourself, not the requirements that Ruiz imposes on you.) On the other hand, if you engage perfectly with your word as your goal, if you commit to be as honest and kind as possible with your words, without waiting for perfection of yourself or to fight if you are too short, this agreement could improve your well-being with yourself. In the first part of this 2-part video, we learn how the “domestication” of men and how all the rules and values of our family and society are imposed on us by a system of punishment and reward. As young children, our true nature is to love and be happy, to explore and enjoy life; We are absolutely authentic. But then we learn to be what others think we should, and because it`s not normal that we are who we are, we start pretending we`re not what we`re not. When we are teenagers, we have learned to judge ourselves, to punish ourselves and to reward ourselves after agreements that we have never chosen.

The four agreements help us break self-limitation agreements and replace them with agreements that bring us freedom, happiness and love. I have neither read nor planned this book. I saw these four chords on the wall in a yoga teacher house and laughed. These tenants are what Saniel Bonder, the founder of Waking Down In Mutality, would call hyper-masculine ideas to improve us. They could improve our lives for a while, but like all self-improvement projects, they imply that ultimately we need more self-insurance. Although there is an important place for the action component in life (the male strength), it is necessary to reconcile it with the softer outfit and to accept the maternity qualities of the deep feminine. Truly loving us for and with all our human weaknesses is the key to the non-judgment of ourselves and others, and a surprising impudence. This can pave the way for a deeper understanding that involves knowing us as an unlimited presence of Devine. Here is a spontaneous list of my 4 chords: (1) Give yourself a break – again and again thank you, Allan, for sharing for their wisdom. I am honored that someone of your stature would take the time to read my article and clarify the importance of the agreements.

I`m very excited about this trip. It will be different from any other I`ve driven to Teo — I`ve changed, and my beloved will teach with me for the first time. Your heart is huge. Info: tolteconline.com/events-2/ I like what you`re saying. If you`ve written a book about your spontaneous chords, I`ll read it. One of the most important teachings of wisdom in the Toltec tradition is that we all dream — to dream of a unique vision and experience of the universe. It`s at the beginning of “The Four Accords,” and my experience is that a lot of people slip into that part and go to the chords. How do we know the correct interpretation of Ruiz`s reference to John 1:1-5? We could break one of its four agreements and make the assumption of its intent.